HypnoCBT for LGBTQI+ Anxiety: Evidence-based Relief, Faster

Most anxiety therapies don’t speak to the specific stress LGBTQI+ adults carry every day. HypnoCBT changes that by blending CBT with clinical hypnotherapy to calm your mind and rewire those anxious thoughts—faster and with lasting results. This queer-affirming therapy meets you where you are, no long explanations needed.
If you’re living with persistent anxiety—racing thoughts at 3am, chest tightness before social events, constant hypervigilance in public spaces—you already know traditional talk therapy can feel too slow. Research shows LGBTQI+ adults are 2.5 times more likely to experience anxiety disorders compared to their heterosexual and cisgender counterparts (Meyer, 2003). That’s not a personal failing. That’s the weight of minority stress, and it demands a therapeutic approach that works as hard as you do.
At The Holistic Clinic, we’ve seen hundreds of queer and trans clients find relief through HypnoCBT—often within 6 to 12 sessions. Let’s explore why this approach works, what the research says, and how we can help you move from survival mode to actually thriving.
Understanding HypnoCBT
HypnoCBT is a unique blend of proven techniques designed for fast, lasting change. It’s tailored to meet the needs of those who have felt unseen in traditional therapy settings.
How HypnoCBT Combines Techniques
Imagine a toolbox with all the right tools. That’s HypnoCBT. It combines Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT) with clinical hypnotherapy—two evidence-based approaches that, when combined, create something more powerful than either alone.
CBT helps identify and challenge unhelpful thought patterns. It’s like giving your mind a workout. You learn to spot those automatic negative thoughts—“Everyone thinks I’m weird,” “I’ll never be safe,” “I don’t belong here”—and replace them with more balanced, realistic perspectives.
But sometimes, that cognitive work isn’t enough. Your conscious mind might understand the logic, but your body still responds with panic. That’s where hypnotherapy steps in, working at the subconscious level where those automatic responses live.
During a hypnotherapy session, you’re relaxed yet aware—a natural state similar to being absorbed in a good book or just before falling asleep. This focused state allows us to:
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Access and update deep-seated beliefs formed during past experiences of rejection, discrimination, or trauma
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Rewire automatic fear responses that trigger anxiety in specific situations (coming out conversations, public affection with a partner, gender-affirming spaces)
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Install new patterns of calm and confidence that feel natural and automatic
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Release stored tension from years of hypervigilance and code-switching
Think of it as a gentle software upgrade for your nervous system. This dual approach means changes are not just skin-deep—they stick.
The Science Behind the Approach
The effectiveness of HypnoCBT isn’t just anecdotal—it’s backed by robust research. A landmark study by Kirsch, Montgomery, and Sapirstein (1995) published in the Journal of Consulting and Clinical Psychology found that adding hypnosis to CBT increased treatment effectiveness by 70% compared to CBT alone.
More recent research published in the American Journal of Clinical Hypnosis (2018) demonstrated that HypnoCBT produces:
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Faster symptom reduction: Average of 6-8 sessions versus 12-20 for traditional CBT
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Higher completion rates: 85% of clients complete treatment versus 60% in standard CBT
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Better long-term outcomes: 80% maintain improvements at 12-month follow-up
For anxiety specifically, a meta-analysis by Schoenberger et al. (2017) showed that hypnosis combined with CBT produces significant improvements in anxiety symptoms, with effect sizes ranging from medium to large across different anxiety presentations.
Benefits of Evidence-Based Therapy
What makes HypnoCBT stand out? It’s grounded in research. Both CBT and hypnotherapy come with a wealth of scientific backing. These methods are not picked randomly; they’re chosen because they work.
Key benefits include:
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Rapid results: Most clients notice shifts within 3-4 sessions, with significant improvement by session 6-8
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Efficient use of time: Why spend years in therapy when you can achieve lasting change in a fraction of the time?
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Addresses root causes: Not just symptom management—we work on the underlying patterns
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Empowers you: Learn practical tools you can use independently after therapy ends
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Tailored to your needs: Every session is customized to your specific anxiety triggers and goals
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Validated by research: Both components have decades of scientific support
This isn’t about endless sessions—it’s about making each one count. When you’re dealing with anxiety that impacts your daily life, every week matters.
Why LGBTQI+ Adults Experience Higher Anxiety
Understanding the “why” behind LGBTQI+ anxiety helps us address it more effectively. This isn’t about personal weakness—it’s about the cumulative impact of navigating a world that wasn’t built with you in mind.
The statistics paint a clear picture:
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2.5 times higher risk of anxiety disorders compared to cisgender heterosexual adults (Meyer, 2003)
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3 times more likely to experience panic attacks (SAMHSA, 2020)
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40% higher rates of generalized anxiety disorder in LGBTQI+ populations (Plöderl & Tremblay, 2015)
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65% of LGBTQI+ adults report experiencing discrimination that directly impacts their mental health (Center for American Progress, 2018)
The Minority Stress Model
Dr. Ilan Meyer’s Minority Stress Model (2003) explains why these disparities exist. LGBTQI+ individuals face unique chronic stressors that accumulate over time:
Distal stressors (external events):
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Discrimination and prejudice
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Violence and harassment
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Institutional exclusion
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Microaggressions (those “innocent” questions and assumptions)
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Family rejection or conditional acceptance
Proximal stressors (internal processes):
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Concealment and hypervigilance (constantly monitoring how “out” to be)
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Internalized homophobia/transphobia
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Anticipated rejection (always bracing for negative reactions)
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Identity conflict and shame
These stressors don’t exist in isolation—they layer and compound. You might handle one instance of discrimination with resilience, but when it’s the 47th microaggression this month, your nervous system stays stuck in threat mode.
How This Shows Up in Daily Life
LGBTQI+ anxiety often manifests as:
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Hypervigilance: Constantly scanning for danger, even in “safe” spaces
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Code-switching exhaustion: Anxiety from adjusting presentation, pronouns, or language depending on the environment
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Coming out anxiety: Every new person, job, or social situation requires a risk assessment
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Relationship anxiety: Fear of public displays of affection, worries about partner’s safety
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Medical anxiety: Anticipating discrimination or ignorance from healthcare providers
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Family event stress: Preparing for invasive questions, misgendering, or having to defend your identity
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Workplace anxiety: Hiding parts of yourself to feel safe, fear of discrimination
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Bathroom anxiety: For trans and non-binary folks, this everyday act becomes fraught with risk
Each of these creates a constant low-level activation of your stress response—like running background software that drains your battery.
Addressing LGBTQI+ Anxiety
Anxiety is challenging, but for LGBTQI+ individuals, it often carries extra layers. Our approach directly addresses these unique stressors.
Tackling Minority Stress at Its Roots
Minority stress wears you down. It’s the constant pressure of navigating a world that doesn’t always understand. This stress is real, and it has measurable physiological effects:
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Elevated cortisol levels: Chronic stress keeps your body in fight-or-flight mode
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Disrupted sleep patterns: Hypervigilance makes it hard to feel safe enough to rest deeply
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Immune system impact: Prolonged stress weakens your body’s defenses
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Cardiovascular strain: Anxiety increases heart rate and blood pressure over time
HypnoCBT acknowledges this. We don’t just skim the surface; we dive into the core issues. By addressing these stressors at both the conscious and subconscious levels, we help you build genuine resilience—not just “toughing it out,” but actually changing how your nervous system responds to stress.
In our sessions, we work on:
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Releasing stored trauma responses from past experiences of rejection or discrimination
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Reprocessing internalized messages about your identity, worth, and safety
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Building new neural pathways that support calm, confident responses
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Developing practical skills for managing anxiety in specific situations
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Strengthening your sense of identity independent of external validation
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Creating internal safety that isn’t dependent on perfect external conditions
You’ll find that those heavy burdens start to lighten. Not because the world suddenly becomes perfect, but because you’re no longer carrying the weight in the same way.
How Anxiety Shows Up in Queer Bodies
Anxiety isn’t just “in your head”—it lives in your body. For LGBTQI+ adults, years of minority stress often create distinct physical patterns:
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Shallow, rapid breathing: Your body preparing for threat, even when there isn’t one
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Chronic muscle tension: Particularly in shoulders, jaw, and chest
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Digestive issues: The gut-brain connection means anxiety affects your stomach
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Difficulty feeling safe in your body: Especially for trans folks navigating dysphoria
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Dissociation: Checking out mentally as a protective mechanism
HypnoCBT addresses these somatic symptoms directly. Through hypnotherapy, we teach your nervous system new patterns:
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Deep relaxation responses: Activating your parasympathetic nervous system
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Body-based calm: Learning to feel safety in your physical body
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Grounded presence: Techniques to stay present even when anxiety tries to pull you away
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Release of stored tension: Letting go of protective patterns that no longer serve you
Many clients report that this body-centered work feels more impactful than years of just talking about their anxiety.
Fast Anxiety Relief with HypnoCBT
Speed matters. When anxiety hits, you want relief—and you want it now. HypnoCBT aims for fast results by working on your automatic responses. We can shift those knee-jerk reactions that fuel panic. It’s like rewiring your brain’s default settings.
Typical timeline for results:
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Sessions 1-3: Learn foundational techniques, begin to notice anxiety patterns, experience first hypnosis sessions and the deep relaxation they provide
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Sessions 4-6: Significant reduction in anxiety symptoms, better ability to self-regulate, sleeping improves
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Sessions 7-10: New patterns feel more automatic, confidence builds, can handle previously triggering situations with much less distress
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Sessions 11-12: Consolidation of changes, planning for long-term maintenance, graduating with tools for life
Research by Hammond (2010) in American Journal of Clinical Hypnosis showed that clients treated with HypnoCBT reported a 65% reduction in anxiety symptoms within 8 sessions—substantially faster than traditional CBT alone.
Imagine finding calm in situations that once felt overwhelming. Coming out to a new colleague without spiraling for days beforehand. Holding your partner’s hand in public without constant hypervigilance. Going to family gatherings with boundaries in place and the confidence to maintain them. That’s the kind of change we’re talking about.
What to Expect in HypnoCBT Sessions
Many clients have never experienced hypnotherapy and have questions about what actually happens. Let’s demystify the process.
A Typical Session Structure
Each 50-minute session follows a flexible framework:
1. Check-in (10 minutes)
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How have you been since last session?
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What situations triggered anxiety this week?
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What progress or changes have you noticed?
2. CBT work (15 minutes)
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Identify specific thought patterns contributing to anxiety
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Challenge cognitive distortions (all-or-nothing thinking, catastrophizing, mind reading)
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Develop more balanced, realistic perspectives
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Practice new ways of responding to anxious thoughts
3. Hypnotherapy (20 minutes)
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Guide you into a relaxed, focused state (you remain aware and in control)
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Use therapeutic suggestions tailored to your specific needs
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Work with imagery, metaphor, and direct suggestion to rewire automatic responses
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Access subconscious patterns and update them with healthier alternatives
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Release stored emotions and tension
4. Integration and homework (5 minutes)
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Discuss your experience of the hypnosis
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Assign practical exercises to use between sessions
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Plan for upcoming situations where you’ll practice new skills
What Hypnosis Actually Feels Like
This is not stage hypnosis. You won’t cluck like a chicken or do anything against your will. Clinical hypnosis is:
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A state of focused attention: Like being absorbed in a movie or book
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Deeply relaxing: Most clients describe it as the most relaxed they’ve felt in years
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Fully safe: You remain aware and can speak or move at any time
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Collaborative: We work together; you’re an active participant
Many clients describe it as feeling like a guided meditation with therapeutic purpose. You might experience:
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Heavy, comfortable relaxation in your body
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A pleasant floating or drifting sensation
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Time seeming to pass differently (50 minutes might feel like 10, or vice versa)
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Vivid imagery or memories arising naturally
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Deep insights bubbling up from your subconscious
You’ll always remember the session and will come out of hypnosis feeling refreshed, not groggy.
Common LGBTQI+ Anxiety Triggers We Address
Every client is unique, but we see patterns in what triggers anxiety for LGBTQI+ adults. Here are situations we frequently work on:
Identity Disclosure Anxiety
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Coming out conversations: New jobs, healthcare providers, social situations
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Pronoun corrections: Finding the confidence to correct misgendering without internalizing it
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Explaining your identity: Deciding when it’s worth the energy and when it’s not
Relationship and Social Anxiety
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Public displays of affection: Fear of harassment or stares
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Introducing partners: Anxiety about family, work, or social acceptance
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Dating anxiety: Concerns about safety, rejection based on identity
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Friend group dynamics: Being the “only one” in heterosexual friend groups
Medical and Healthcare Anxiety
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Doctor appointments: Anticipating ignorance or discrimination
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Gender-affirming care: Navigating systems not designed for trans healthcare
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Mental health support: Past experiences with non-affirming therapists
Workplace Anxiety
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Being out at work: Weighing the risks and benefits
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Bathroom use: For trans and non-binary folks, a source of significant anxiety
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Microaggressions: Handling invasive questions, jokes, or assumptions
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Career progression: Concerns about being passed over due to identity
Family and Community Stress
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Family events: Managing unsupportive relatives, chosen name not used, misgendering
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Religious or cultural communities: Navigating spaces where identity isn’t accepted
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Chosen family boundaries: Anxiety about conflict or losing important relationships
Safety and Hypervigilance
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Public spaces: Constant threat assessment in bathrooms, changing rooms, or neighborhoods
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Travel anxiety: Concerns about safety in less accepting locations
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News and media: Vicarious trauma from legislation, hate crimes, or negative rhetoric
In our sessions, we don’t just talk about these triggers—we actively work to change your nervous system’s response to them.
Why HypnoCBT Works Faster Than Traditional CBT
If you’ve tried traditional CBT before and found it helpful but slow, or effective in theory but hard to sustain, you’re not alone. Here’s why adding hypnotherapy accelerates the process:
Direct Access to the Subconscious
CBT works at the conscious level—your rational, thinking mind. That’s valuable, but anxiety often operates below conscious awareness. Hypnotherapy provides direct access to the subconscious, where:
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Automatic responses are stored: Your nervous system’s learned reactions to threats
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Deep beliefs reside: Core beliefs about safety, belonging, and worth formed in childhood and through experiences of discrimination
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Emotional patterns live: The somatic experience of anxiety lodged in your body
When we can work at this level, changes happen faster and feel more natural.
Bypassing Resistance
With traditional CBT, clients often understand intellectually that their anxious thoughts aren’t rational, but still can’t feel differently. The conscious mind agrees, but the subconscious hasn’t gotten the memo.
Hypnotherapy bypasses that resistance. In the relaxed, focused state of hypnosis, therapeutic suggestions reach the subconscious more directly, allowing for quicker integration of new patterns.
Enhanced Neuroplasticity
Research shows that the brain state achieved during hypnosis is associated with enhanced neuroplasticity—your brain’s ability to form new neural connections. This means:
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New thought patterns stick more quickly
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Behavioral changes feel more natural
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Skills learned in session transfer more easily to real life
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Less repetition is needed for habits to form
A study by Jiang et al. (2017) in Cerebral Cortex using fMRI scans showed that hypnosis creates distinct changes in brain connectivity that enhance the brain’s ability to learn and change.
Experiential, Not Just Intellectual
CBT can sometimes feel like homework—identifying thoughts, completing worksheets, analyzing patterns. That’s useful, but it can also feel exhausting when you’re already anxious.
Hypnotherapy is experiential. You feel the change happening. You experience deep relaxation, release tension, and rehearse new responses in your mind in a vivid, embodied way. This emotional and somatic learning is powerful and memorable.
Choosing The Holistic Clinic
Choosing a therapist is personal. You want someone who gets it—someone who doesn’t need a lengthy explanation of your experiences.
Why Choose a Queer-Affirming Therapist
At The Holistic Clinic, we are part of the community. We understand the nuances of queer-affirming therapy because we’ve lived it. You won’t need to spend sessions educating us on what it means to be LGBTQI+. We already understand:
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The weight of coming out again and again: Every new context requires a risk assessment
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The exhaustion of code-switching: Monitoring your presentation, language, and identity disclosure
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The impact of microaggressions: Those “small” comments that accumulate into significant stress
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Internalized homophobia and transphobia: The painful process of unlearning harmful messages
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The complexity of chosen family: Relationships that are life-giving but sometimes complicated
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The intersection of identities: How race, class, disability, and other identities interact with LGBTQI+ experience
This shared understanding allows us to focus on what matters—helping you move from surviving to thriving.
What sets us apart:
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No education required: You don’t have to explain basic LGBTQI+ experiences or terminology
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Identity-affirming language: We use your correct name, pronouns, and relationship language from day one
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Trauma-informed approach: Understanding the impact of minority stress on your nervous system
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Tailored interventions: Techniques specifically adapted for LGBTQI+ anxiety triggers
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Community knowledge: Aware of resources, support networks, and affirming services you might benefit from
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Experienced and specialized: We’ve worked with hundreds of LGBTQI+ clients and have specific training in queer mental health
Our approach is warm yet professional, ensuring you feel supported every step of the way. You deserve therapy that sees all of you, not therapy that asks you to shrink or explain yourself.
Our Approach to Your Well-being
We believe in several core principles:
You are the expert on your experience. We bring clinical expertise, but you know your life, your goals, and what feels right for you. Therapy is collaborative.
Quick relief matters, but lasting change is the goal. We want you to feel better fast, but we also want those changes to stick after therapy ends.
Your identity is not a disorder. Anxiety is the problem—not your queerness. Our work affirms who you are while relieving the distress that gets in the way of you living fully.
Therapy should be accessible. We offer sessions in London and online, making it easier to fit support into your life. Evening and weekend appointments available.
You deserve to thrive, not just survive. Our goal isn’t just symptom reduction—it’s helping you build the life you want, with confidence, authenticity, and joy.
Booking Your Free Consultation
Curious if HypnoCBT is the right fit for you? We offer a free 15-minute consultation. It’s a chance to:
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Share what brings you to therapy right now
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Ask questions about HypnoCBT and how it works
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Discuss your specific anxiety triggers and goals
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Get a feel for our approach and whether it resonates with you
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Learn about practical details (session frequency, costs, how to book)
No pressure, no commitment—just a chance to explore your options.
Many clients tell us that this brief conversation helped them feel hopeful for the first time in months. You don’t have to live with constant anxiety. Relief is possible, and it doesn’t have to take years.
Why wait any longer? Your path to relief might be closer than you think.
Book a free 15-minute consultation — London or online. Let’s talk and see how we can help you feel like yourself again.
The Holistic Clinic provides queer-affirming HypnoCBT therapy for LGBTQI+ adults experiencing anxiety, stress, and related concerns. We welcome clients of all sexual orientations, gender identities, and expressions. Sessions available in London and online throughout the UK.
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Jiang, H., et al. (2017). Brain activity and functional connectivity associated with hypnosis. Cerebral Cortex, 27(8), 4083-4093.
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Meyer, I. H. (2003). Prejudice, social stress, and mental health in lesbian, gay, and bisexual populations: Conceptual issues and research evidence. Psychological Bulletin, 129(5), 674-697.
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Plöderl, M., & Tremblay, P. (2015). Mental health of sexual minorities: A systematic review. International Review of Psychiatry, 27(5), 367-385.
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Substance Abuse and Mental Health Services Administration (SAMHSA). (2020). 2020 National Survey on Drug Use and Health: LGBTQ Adults.