The Trauma of Disbelief: How Gaslighting & Invalidation Shape LGBTQI+ Anxiety and How to Rebuild Self-Trust

In brief: Chronic invalidation — being told your feelings are wrong, your perceptions unreliable, or your experiences exaggerated — trains the nervous system to distrust its own signals. For LGBTQI+ people, this “trauma of disbelief” is a hidden driver of anxiety, hypervigilance, over-explaining and emotional shutdown, compounding minority stress (Meyer, 2003). Self-trust can be rebuiltContinue reading “The Trauma of Disbelief: How Gaslighting & Invalidation Shape LGBTQI+ Anxiety and How to Rebuild Self-Trust”