In brief: Chronic invalidation — being told your feelings are wrong, your perceptions unreliable, or your experiences exaggerated — trains the nervous system to distrust its own signals. For LGBTQI+ people, this “trauma of disbelief” is a hidden driver of anxiety, hypervigilance, over-explaining and emotional shutdown, compounding minority stress (Meyer, 2003). Self-trust can be rebuiltContinue reading “The Trauma of Disbelief: How Gaslighting & Invalidation Shape LGBTQI+ Anxiety and How to Rebuild Self-Trust”
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LGBTQI+ Anhedonia: When Life Feels “Meh” and How to Get Your Joy Back
In brief: Anhedonia — literally “without pleasure” — is the reduced ability to feel enjoyment or motivation, and chronic stress alone can trigger it, even without depression. LGBTQI+ people may be especially vulnerable because minority stress (Meyer, 2003) is stacked and ongoing. The good news: anhedonia reflects a modifiable reward-system state, and evidence-based strategies —Continue reading “LGBTQI+ Anhedonia: When Life Feels “Meh” and How to Get Your Joy Back”