In brief: For many LGBTQI+ people, perfectionism is not a personality trait or a sign of high standards — it is a nervous system survival strategy. Growing up feeling fundamentally “wrong” teaches the brain that safety must be earned through flawless performance. Perfectionism can show up as over-achievement, avoidance, over-giving in relationships, or auditing whetherContinue reading “Perfectionism Is a Survival Strategy: Why LGBTQI+ People Fear “Good Enough””